What you need to know about BDSM: the best S&M techniques for beginners
After E. L. James’ scandalous bestseller Fifty Shades of Grey, girls around the world literally went crazy. They kept pestering their young men to experiment with the controversial sexual practice called BDSM (Bandage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism). By no means are we going to call such people crazy-after all, everyone can decide for themselves what is good and what is bad-but we will try at least to keep the home practice of BDMS to a minimum.
So, I suggest that you get acquainted with the rules of safety of BDMS, so it can be practiced at home.
Binding
Forbidden fruit is sweet – that’s what they say when you want something badly, but can’t or can’t have it. This rule also works in sex. Binding in BDSM Porno is a common practice, but there is no need to go overboard at home. It is enough to tie your partner’s hands behind his head or tie him to the bed so that he (or she) cannot touch you. Then you can do whatever you want, but within reasonable limits. When tying, you can’t tighten the ropes too much, use duct tape or scotch tape (it hurts to rip them off the skin), handcuffs (you can easily lose the keys to them), cable ties (if used incorrectly, they constrict blood vessels) and synthetic ropes (they burn the skin). The best means of tying are ties, ribbons, stockings, handkerchiefs and special vinyl tapes.
Under no circumstances should you leave your tied up partner alone in the room and always have scissors on hand to get rid of improvised shackles quickly.
Temperature Game
BDSM often uses a change of temperature to diversify the experience. It is better to play this game when the partner is blindfolded, so he will not know what he is getting ready for and the sensations will be brighter. Not in any case should not pour cool boiling water on a partner, and then ice water – this is not a fairy tale “Little Humpbacked Horse” – none of the partners of such outrages will not make them look younger and younger, but they will easily suffer burns of the 1st or 2nd degree. Much safer to use blowing with cold air and massage with a hot device, or just lead your partner’s body with ice cubes, pre-washed with warm water, otherwise there is a risk to repeat the dangerous trick with the iron bar in winter.
Forget about cauterizing the body with metal objects and wax from an ordinary candle.
Flogging
The practice of BDSM is not without flogging. There are quite a few lovers who like to put their palm on someone’s naked ass, attack their partner with a whip or a flogger and get back at him for everything. But it’s all more painful than arousing. No one likes (except avid perverts and S&M lovers) being beaten in their own bed. So follow the rules: the first spankings should be very soft with strokes and over a large area. The force of the blow builds up gradually, concentrate on the same places. Do not forget about the rhythm – the slaps should not only be felt but also heard. Don’t lose touch with reality and don’t get carried away so as not to put your partner into a half-conscious state from the mini-beating.
When your spanking game is over, lubricate the injured skin with revitalizing cream – it deserves it.
Role-playing games
In conventional BDSM practices, you have to put your partner down, humiliate, and shame him/her with role-playing. In the lighter version at home, you don’t have to bully and humiliate your loved one. You can just fool around, play rape (not too harsh), and completely give your partner your body. Don’t forget the costumes. Costumes of a nurse or nurse, boss and subordinate, teacher and student, prostitute and pimp… are best for home BDSM.
Spanking, stroking, binding and domination can be used in role-playing.
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